At the
T's Social Engineering School we have condensed charisma, sexual chemistry and other social arts into a series of psychological techniques that can be applied to socializing, love and business. This is known as social engineering and is dynamic enough to help make social power your everyday language.
T is Australia’s premier dating coach.
Having dedicated years of staying caged up home this ugly
duckling has worked his way up the ranks from loser to one
of the most dangerous men in the seduction arena. It took
him only a month to go from a man so anxious about social
situations that even watching them on television made him
nervous to being hired as a dating coach by one of
Australia’s original dating companies.
By the end of the next minute you will be
shocked…
Saturday Night (Sydney, Australia)
9:30pm
Frozen in this toilet cubicle Jonathan sat
frozen waiting for them to leave. Paralyzed from fear this
urine scented safe house started to feel more like home.
Anything to avoid the party let alone his “friend” Simon
outside.
“Oh man she was so hot, she made it too
easy for me” Simon said as entered the bathroom, his
friend Tom replied enthusiastically “She was yours from
the beginning, you’re doing well tonight. Where’s that
weirdo you came with? I thought I saw him come in here.”
Jonathan peers through the slot of the cubicle door only
to see Simon shrug his shoulders in dismay as to where his
tag-along has run off to. “For all I know he’s in here
Tom!” Simon replies.
Jonathan’s pulse races, they know he’s
there. He starts to review the night’s events in slow
motion. Why did he ever agree to coming to this party? He
barely knew Simon but decided to go anyway and this is the
reward he gets for trying to push himself to be social.
High expectations only lead to greater disappointment.
Sitting there in the men’s room angry at himself for even
trying the only thing he wanted was that sinking feeling
deep in his stomach and the tightness across his chest to
subside even a little.
It has been years since he had a woman,
years since a date and by the looks of things a lifetime
of introversion. No one likes to settle for second best
and tonight was a significant slap on the wrist teaching
him an important lesson that some people are made for
socializing and others are meant to stay home.
Sunday
Morning:
3am
The security guard hollered through the
cubicle’s plywood doors “Hey buddy we’re closing up,
you’re going to have to finish up in there and make your
way out”. “Oh, so the night’s over and everyone’s left?”
Jonathan asked trying to appear surprised and subtly find
out whether he’d have to face the nightclub’s patrons
again. His stilted voice undermined the confidence he was
attempting to exude, the security guard noticed and told
him he can go out the back way if he wished. Jonathan
graciously accepted and sauntered down to the nearest bus
stop to wait for the 325 route back to his parent’s house.
That was the longest bus ride of his life.
Born in
Sydney,
Australia,
Jonathan, a young man in his early twenties decided that
night never to place himself in any form of social context
unless it was absolutely necessary. He made a resolution
to stop attending classes for his Business and Law degrees
and learn purely via correspondence, the mere sight of
people talking to each other at university made his chest
tighten with anxiety.
It was not always like this. During his
teens he was one of the first and more successful ladies
men in his school despite being a only five foot six,
hairy and prematurely balding. His reputation preceded him
as a natural with women and he enjoyed unmitigated
success. As he neared the end of his school days his
future aspirations of being a lawyer saw Jonathan remove
himself from the social scene as he studied relentlessly
to gain entry into both Business and Law.
He graduated, gained entrance to the degree
of his choice and decided it’s time for him to celebrate
after a year of isolation. Jonathan’s close friends
decided to go overseas so he decided to call Simon, a
friend of a friend, and ask him if he wanted to join him
on his first ever nightclub experience.
It was not what Jonathan expected.
It was very different to school parties he
used to go to with his friends. It was the night 54
rejections and hours of ridicule made him realize that his
past successes were never to be recreated again. He
decided to move on with his life and accept his new place
within society.
Two Years Later
4pm
It was a hard day at work. The 5am start
working as a laborer in a small-goods factory ended with
Jonathan’s car not starting. Smelling like a smoked ham he
boarding the bus home and fell into a conversation with a
large red-headed man called Sidney. A young guy in his
mid-thirties large enough to occupy two regular bus seats.
Covered in freckles from head to toe he
blue shirt complimented a classy black leather belt that,
for some reason, was sitting on the outer rim of his
jeans, not threaded through the loops. Next to him was his
girlfriend Stephanie; a six foot four brunette dancer with
light-grey eyes. They were deep in conversation until the
bus reached Central Station and she left telling him she’d
call after work.
How could a man that looks like this be
courting a woman like that? It was impossible. Jonathan
was adamant she was one of those mail-order brides he kept
hearing about. His curiosity got the best of him and
Jonathan approached his first stranger in years asking him
how he did it. “My good looks!” Sidney replied, laughing
hard. Jonathan didn’t know what to say, he sat there
speechless and awkward. It would be rude to move seats so
instead he starting looking intently at the advertisement
for panty-liners on the bus seat as if it was something he
was genuinely considering trying.
“I’m a pickup artist”, Sidney said.
“You paint?” Jonathan inquired.
“Not quite, I pick up women for a living”,
Sidney replied.
“Where do you drop them?” Jonathan said.
Sidney bit his lip, half frustrated half
humored, “I teach men to socialize effectively and
efficiently. Basically improving the quality of their
lives even if they look like me”. Jonathan found it hard
to suspend his disbelief that such a man could be telling
the truth and even that such a concept existed. He thought
he would dig deeper into this man’s line of work: “I
charge $3,200 for a weekend workshop” Sidney revealed.
Suddenly that sinking feeling re-entered Jonathan’s
stomach, the same from the nightclub two years ago. “I
can’t really afford that on my wage…is it possible to pay
you in ham and beef products or paintings? I’m an artist
as a hobby.”
Sidney agreed to both and five paintings
and three Christmas hams later Jonathan was on his way to
becoming T, a man who will later be known as one of the
most infamous seducers in the city working for a variety
of pickup companies as a dating coach known for turning
men like himself into some of the most impressive pickup
artists in the world.
He became part of an underground society of
socially inexperienced men looking to improve their
success with women. A society later to be exposed by
New York Times Bestseller The
Game by Neil Strauss. Attending a multitude of dating
workshops, reading hundreds of books and initiating
thousands of interactions with new women has seen T become
a dating authority for men all over the world .
T has learnt, applied and even taught
nearly every pickup method or social process he came
across and learnt the hard way that only 95% of what he
learnt could be applied effectively with consistent
results each time. Though these techniques were rigid,
they were either vague or only applicable to one context
or to one personality type.
Spending years studying every piece of
information he could get his hands on T unearthed the
psychological foundations behind every successful
technique and began developing their principles into a
process that can be applied to anyone in any situation.
Sidney and T became close friends and T
began to look outside the seduction community for
inspiration and began interviewing thousands of natural
ladies' men about their interactions.
T:
So what did you first say to her?
Natural:
I don’t know, I just said whatever came to me, something
about her dress.
T:
But how did she get attracted to you?
Natural:
You just need to be more confident, women love confidence
T:
But how do I get “more confident”
Natural:
just feel it within you
T:
But how?
The script never changed and never helped.
The few people who were able to provide advice to T gave
him vague and intangible answers he found hard to apply:
“Just be more confident”, “Try to be funnier” and
“Just be you” were answers that didn’t cure
anything. He needed specific steps.
Years of trial and error, practice and
study saw the birth of the T Method. A dynamic and
devastating effective process that provides concrete
processes for
being more confident” or “being
interesting”. these vague terms have been
quantified into a science that consistently delivers
positive results with women and destroys other male
competition in an ethical and gentlemanly fashion every
time.
The T Method is all about helping people
evolve and aims to make you understand, rather than just
learn, the underlying foundations behind every seduction
theory. Once you understand something you can become
dynamic in any situation.
Already many of T’s students have bedded,
dated and even married some of the most glamorous and
sought after around. He now spends his time teaching
people the arts of social engineering and is constantly
improving people’s social abilities in facets of their
social and business lives.